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		<title>How to Make a Point Without Leaving a Mess</title>
		<link>http://www.qohel.com/2011/12/11/how-to-make-a-point-without-leaving-a-mess/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 06:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unlike the occupy mobsters, these ladies have a point, it is a point worth making, they don&#8217;t leave a mess for anyone else to clean up, and no one got raped or murdered. Femen 5, Occupiers 0. FEMEN, a Ukrainian feminist group, is up in arms about the win of Vladimir Putin&#8217;s United Russia party [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/12/11/how-to-make-a-point-without-leaving-a-mess/' addthis:title='How to Make a Point Without Leaving a Mess '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unlike the occupy mobsters, these ladies have a point, it is a point worth making, they don&#8217;t leave a mess for anyone else to clean up, and no one got raped or murdered.</p>
<p>Femen 5, Occupiers 0.</p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/09/femen-topless-russia-election_n_1139091.html?ref=world#s532020&amp;title=Russian_Woman_Strips">FEMEN, a Ukrainian feminist group</a>, is up in arms about the win of Vladimir Putin&#8217;s United Russia party in the Dec. 4 elections.</em></p>
<p><em>To show their disapproval, FEMEN protesters stripped down in front of The Cathedral Of Christ The Savior in Moscow on Friday, holding signs that said, &#8220;God Get Rid Of The Czar.&#8217;</em></p>
<p><em>The women were detained by security guards and taken into police custody, Reuters reports. The women were released shortly after being detained.</em></p>
<div id="attachment_5250" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 394px"><a href="http://www.qohel.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/femen.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-5250" title="femen" src="http://www.qohel.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/femen.jpg" alt="" width="384" height="262" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Quicker and tidier than the occupy mob, and they have a point!</p></div>
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		<title>Why Women Earn Less</title>
		<link>http://www.qohel.com/2011/08/24/why-women-earn-less/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 04:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gender]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gender gap]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[myth of male power]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Essentially, it is because women have choices about blending work, leisure, and home life which are not available to men. Warren Farrell said in The Myth of Male Powerthat women have three options when it comes to work:  Work full time Care for children/family at home Some blend of the two Men have a different range of [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/08/24/why-women-earn-less/' addthis:title='Why Women Earn Less '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Essentially, it is because women have choices about blending work, leisure, and home life which are not available to men.</p>
<p>Warren Farrell said in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0425181448/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amicuscuriae-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399377&amp;creativeASIN=0425181448">The Myth of Male Power</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=amicuscuriae-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0425181448&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399377" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /><label id="showTextCategoryLinkPreview_l1"><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=amicuscuriae-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0425181448&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399385" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />that women have three options when it comes to work:</label></p>
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<li> Work full time</li>
<li>Care for children/family at home</li>
<li>Some blend of the two</li>
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<p>Men have a different range of choices:</p>
<ul>
<li>Work full time</li>
<li>Work full time</li>
<li>Work full time</li>
</ul>
<p>This is part of an article by <a href="http://www.city-journal.org/2011/21_3_gender-gap.html">Kay S. Hymowitz in City Journal</a>:</p>
<p><em>“Women still earn on average only about 75 cents for every dollar a man earns. That’s a huge discrepancy.”</em></p>
<p><em>Let’s begin by unpacking that 75-cent statistic, which actually varies from 75 to about 81, depending on the year and the study. The figure is based on the average earnings of full-time, year-round (FTYR) workers, usually defined as those who work 35 hours a week or more.</em></p>
<p><em>But consider the mischief contained in that “or more.” It makes the full-time category embrace everyone from a clerk who arrives at her desk at 9 am and leaves promptly at 4 pm to a trial lawyer who eats dinner four nights a week—and lunch on weekends—at his desk. I assume, in this case, that the clerk is a woman and the lawyer a man for the simple reason that—and here is an average that proofers rarely mention—full-time men work more hours than full-time women do. In 2007, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, 27 percent of male full-time workers had workweeks of 41 or more hours, compared with 15 percent of female full-time workers; meanwhile, just 4 percent of full-time men worked 35 to 39 hours a week, while 12 percent of women did. Since FTYR men work more than FTYR women do, it shouldn’t be surprising that the men, on average, earn more.</em></p>
<p><em>The way proofers finesse “full-time” can be a wonder to behold. Take a recent article in the Washington Post by Mariko Chang, author of a forthcoming book on the wealth gap between women and men. Chang cites a wage difference between “full-time” male and female pharmacists to show how “even when they work in the same occupation, men earn more.” A moment’s Googling led me to a 2001 study in the Journal of the American Pharmacists Association concluding that male pharmacists worked 44.1 hours a week, on average, while females worked 37.2 hours. That study is a bit dated, but it’s a good guess that things haven’t changed much in the last decade. According to a 2009 article in the American Journal of Pharmaceutical Education, female pharmacists’ preference for reduced work hours is enough to lead to an industry labor shortage.</em></p>
<p><em>The other arena of mischief contained in the 75-cent statistic lies in the seemingly harmless term “occupation.” Everyone knows that a CEO makes more than a secretary and that a computer scientist makes more than a nurse. And most people wouldn’t be shocked to hear that secretaries and nurses are likely to be women, while CEOs and computer scientists are likely to be men. That obviously explains much of the wage gap.</em></p>
<p><em>But proofers often make the claim that women earn less than men doing the exact same job. They can’t possibly know that. The Labor Department’s occupational categories can be so large that a woman could drive a truck through them. Among “physicians and surgeons,” for example, women make only 64.2 percent of what men make. Outrageous, right? Not if you consider that there are dozens of specialties in medicine: some, like cardiac surgery, require years of extra training, grueling hours, and life-and-death procedures; others, like pediatrics, are less demanding and consequently less highly rewarded. Only 16 percent of surgeons, but a full 50 percent of pediatricians, are women. So the statement that female doctors make only 64.2 percent of what men make is really on the order of a tautology, much like saying that a surgeon working 50 hours a week makes significantly more than a pediatrician working 37. &#8230;</em></p>
<p><em>In the literature on the pay gap and in the media more generally, this state of affairs typically leads to cries of injustice. The presumption is that women pursue reduced or flexible hours because men refuse to take equal responsibility for the children and because the United States does not have “family-friendly policies.” Child care is frequently described as a burden to women, a patriarchal imposition on their ambitions, and a source of profound inequity. But is this attitude accurate? Do women want to be working more, if only the kids—and their useless husbands—would let them? And do we know that more government support would enable them to do so and close the wage gap?</em></p>
<p><em>Actually, there is no evidence for either of these propositions. If women work fewer hours than men do, it appears to be because they want it that way. About two-thirds of the part-time workforce in the United States is female. According to a 2007 Pew Research survey, only 21 percent of working mothers with minor children want to be in the office full-time. Sixty percent say that they would prefer to work part-time, and 19 percent would like to give up their jobs altogether. For working fathers, the numbers are reversed: 72 percent want to work full-time and 12 percent part-time.</em></p>
<p>Inappropriate discrimination in the workplace should stop. But the gender wage gap will never stop, because men and women are different, and choose different things. This is not a sign of systemic injustice against women, but of the freedom women have to make those choices.</p>
<p>Knowing this should be empowering for women who want to earn more. There is nothing in &#8216;the system&#8217; which works against them. They just have to make the same choices men do.</p>
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		<title>Pornography and Terrorism</title>
		<link>http://www.qohel.com/2011/08/18/pornography-and-terrorism/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 04:57:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jennifer S Bryson notes the high proportion of captured terrorists who have had large amounts of pornography in their possession. Pornography makes women and men masturbation aids. The actors cease to be human. Their only purpose is to provide physical stimulation. If they don&#8217;t do their job, they disappear &#8211; the page is turned, the next [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/08/18/pornography-and-terrorism/' addthis:title='Pornography and Terrorism '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2011/08/3651">Jennifer S Bryson notes the high proportion of captured terrorists</a> who have had large amounts of pornography in their possession.</p>
<p>Pornography makes women and men masturbation aids. The actors cease to be human. Their only purpose is to provide physical stimulation. If they don&#8217;t do their job, they disappear &#8211; the page is turned, the next website clicked.</p>
<p>Pornography de-humanises both actors and users.</p>
<p><em>If we want to understand the inner workings of terrorists and would-be terrorists, we must seek to understand their entire person, including the relationship—or inconsistencies—between their words and actions. In the case of the 9/11 hijackers who visited strip clubs, and in the case of Abdo and among what seems like an increasing number of terrorists, actions include sexual perversions and pornography use that cannot be squared with what these ideological terrorists and their supporters espouse.</em></p>
<p>Terrorist acts rely on the ability to dehumanise planned victims. Victims are less than real, less than people. They are to be blotted out.</p>
<p>Bryson asks:</p>
<p><em>Are there security costs to the free-flow of pornography? If so, what are they? Are we as a society putting ourselves at risk by turning a blind eye to pornography proliferation?</em><br />
<em> </em><br />
<em>I wonder further: Could it be that pornography drives some users to a desperate search for some sort of radical “purification” from the pornographic decay in their soul? Could it be that the greater the wedge pornography use drives between an individual’s religious aspirations and the individual’s actions, the more the desperation escalates, culminating in increasingly horrific public violence, even terrorism?</em></p>
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		<title>Get Real!</title>
		<link>http://www.qohel.com/2011/08/12/get-real/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2011 23:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow! Language warning. Courage warning. Un-PC warning. And on reaping what we sow, by the fierce Theodore Dalrymple: The riots are the apotheosis of the welfare state and popular culture in their British form. A population thinks (because it has often been told so by intellectuals and the political class) that it is entitled to [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/08/12/get-real/' addthis:title='Get Real! '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! Language warning. Courage warning. Un-PC warning.</p>
<p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/6SHKhvVjLIc" frameborder="0" width="425" height="349"></iframe></p>
<p>And on reaping what we sow, by the <a href="http://www.city-journal.org/2011/eon0810td.html">fierce Theodore Dalrymple:</a></p>
<p><em>The riots are the apotheosis of the welfare state and popular culture in their British form. A population thinks (because it has often been told so by intellectuals and the political class) that it is entitled to a high standard of consumption, irrespective of its personal efforts; and therefore it regards the fact that it does not receive that high standard, by comparison with the rest of society, as a sign of injustice. It believes itself deprived (because it has often been told so by intellectuals and the political class), even though each member of it has received an education costing $80,000, toward which neither he nor—quite likely—any member of his family has made much of a contribution; indeed, he may well have lived his entire life at others’ expense, such that every mouthful of food he has ever eaten, every shirt he has ever worn, every television he has ever watched, has been provided by others. Even if he were to recognize this, he would not be grateful, for dependency does not promote gratitude. On the contrary, he would simply feel that the subventions were not sufficient to allow him to live as he would have liked.</em></p>
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		<title>Go Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.qohel.com/2011/06/06/go-sarah/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 09:10:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I doubted that Sarah Palin was electable as US president, even if she won the Republican nomination. I have changed my mind. She could do the job. The democrat/liberal claim she is stupid is based on nothing but fear of a formidable opponent. Anyone who thinks she lacks intellect or education has not listened to her speak [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/06/06/go-sarah/' addthis:title='Go Sarah '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I doubted that Sarah Palin was electable as US president, even if she won the Republican nomination.</p>
<p>I have changed my mind.</p>
<p>She could do the job. The democrat/liberal claim she is stupid is based on nothing but fear of a formidable opponent.</p>
<p>Anyone who thinks she lacks intellect or education has not listened to her speak on key issues, or <a href="http://www.facebook.com/sarahpalin#!/sarahpalin?sk=notes">read her articles</a>.</p>
<p>She has experience of life and of opposition and intimidation, and has faced even the most <a href="http://bighollywood.breitbart.com/awrhawkins/2011/06/04/larry-flynt-wishes-sarah-palins-son-trig-had-nnver-been-born/">revolting comments about her and her family</a> with grace and generosity.</p>
<p>Just as importantly, she has experience in actually running things &#8211; something the present incumbent lacks &#8211; and she seems to have an awareness of, and an ability to think clearly about, key world and domestic issues.</p>
<p>What I thought made her unelectable was the sheer magnitude of the campaign against her. She has been so thoroughly vilified in the media that everyone&#8217;s opinions of her have been touched to some extent by constant misrepresentations and accusations.</p>
<p>What has changed my mind is <a href="http://www.nationalreview.com/articles/268845/palin-iundefeatedi-jim-geraghty">Steve Bannon&#8217;s film &#8216;Undefeated.&#8217;</a></p>
<p>It portrays Sarah as a woman of intelligence, integrity and courage, and it shows how these things enabled her to be extraordinarily effective as Governor of Alaska. Her care for ordinary people and determination to do what is right shine through the film.</p>
<p>I hope she will run, but whatever she decides, God bless her and her family.</p>
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		<title>Slutwalk = Nutwalk</title>
		<link>http://www.qohel.com/2011/05/29/slutwalk-nutwalk/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2011 04:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Organisers of the Slutwalk rally declare: Sluts are sex workers. Sluts are virgins. Sluts are mothers with their teenage daughters. Sluts wear beanies, fishnet stockings, G-string leotards, polar fleece and jeans. Really? Are these women (and a few try hard blokes) completely and utterly crazy? Of course rape is wrong. Of course &#8216;No&#8217; means no. Of course [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/05/29/slutwalk-nutwalk/' addthis:title='Slutwalk = Nutwalk '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.smh.com.au/victoria/a-rally-to-find-the-slut-in-everyone-20110528-1f9w3.html">Organisers of the Slutwalk rally declare</a>: <em>Sluts are sex workers. Sluts are virgins. Sluts are mothers with their teenage daughters. Sluts wear beanies, fishnet stockings, G-string leotards, polar fleece and jeans.</em></p>
<p>Really?</p>
<p>Are these women (and a few try hard blokes) completely and utterly crazy?</p>
<div id="attachment_4633" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 428px"><a href="http://www.qohel.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/slutwalk.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-4633" title="slutwalk" src="http://www.qohel.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/slutwalk.jpg" alt="" width="418" height="234" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Slutwalk Rally - Clothes Send a Message</p></div>
<p>Of course rape is wrong. Of course &#8216;No&#8217; means no. Of course women have the right to be safe wherever they are, whatever they choose to wear.</p>
<p>But hang on a second. What does a &#8216;right to be safe wherever they are, whatever they choose to wear&#8217; actually mean?</p>
<p>Men don&#8217;t have any such right. Or maybe they do in theory.</p>
<p>But men, generally, understand that what they wear sends signals about who they are, what they might be up for, and what value they place on themselves. And generally, they stay out of places that might be unsafe. Even if they have a right, in theory, to go where they want, wearing what they want.</p>
<p><em>&#8221;My rape was not my fault!&#8221; Cody Smith told the crowd. A woman who has transitioned to being a man, he choked back tears as he described his guilt.</em></p>
<p><em>&#8221;I spent so many years blaming myself for my state of intoxication … for what I was wearing … for not being strong enough to keep the rapist off me.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>So you were alone with a man you did not know, dressed like a slut (their word, not mine) and crocked out of your brain, and what happened to you was not your fault.</p>
<p>I agree. It wasn&#8217;t your fault. If you said no in a way that your attacker could understand, then it was rape, and your attacker was criminally wrong.</p>
<p>But the reality is that we don&#8217;t just communicate using words. The clothes you wear, the make-up you use, how drunk you are, the way you walk, the way you talk, the places you go, all send signals.</p>
<p>This is true of men too of course. Women rightly use such cues to make decisions about the character and reliablity of the men they choose to be with.</p>
<p>This means both men and women should be aware of, and take responsibility for, the messages they send.</p>
<p>Right or wrong, like it or not, sometimes non-verbal cues outweigh what a person says in words. And if you make a series of decisions to dress in a certain way, drink more than you should, behave like a tart, pash on with a stranger, then don&#8217;t be surprised when a person whose physical responses you have elicited becomes confused about the messages you are sending.</p>
<p>Women should be safe. That is their right. If they want to be taken seriously and treated as equals and adults, they should also be responsible.</p>
<p>And yes, even when women won&#8217;t take responsibility, men should. Rape is always wrong.</p>
<p><strong>Update.</strong></p>
<p>I have stopped comments on this post. I have let most of those already made stand.</p>
<p>Really, people. I would have thought it obvious if I allow comments which swear at me or wish me dead, that I don&#8217;t agree with or endorse every comment made. So it makes little to zero sense to insult me further for the opinions of people who comment.</p>
<p>Secondly, as I thought I had made clear in my original post more than once, rape is an abhorrent crime. It is never acceptable or excusable. It is never right to blame the victim.</p>
<p>It is surely, however, given that there are rapists out there, reasonable to ask how women can be safer.</p>
<p>Asking how women can be safer is not the same thing as blaming them for being raped. Why would anyone make that assumption?</p>
<p>One of the things that concerned me about the Slutwalk is that it suggests that women are to be identified as sexual objects.</p>
<p>If you advertise yourself as sexually available in dress or speech, some people will assume you really are sexually available. Even if you say you are not, at very least you are sending mixed messages.</p>
<p>People should accept your no. Anyone who doesn&#8217;t is a pig and criminal. But the reality is, some people will either misread the messages, or choose to ignore what they don&#8217;t want to hear.</p>
<p>That is not your fault. It is theirs. But that doesn&#8217;t mean there is nothing you can do to avoid being in that situation and to make yourself safer.</p>
<p>Being aware of your dress and actions and what they communicate, and taking steps to make yourself safer is simply part of being a responsible adult.</p>
<p>It may not be fair. But lots of things are not fair. We all have to live in the word as it is, not how we think it should be.</p>
<p>That seems obvious to me, and like one of the commenters, I am baffled about why saying so has caused so much anger.</p>
<p>You may disagree. I am happy to hear why. But telling me I should die a slow painful death, or swearing at me or calling me names is not going to convince me you are right.</p>
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		<title>Jamie&#8217;s Betrayal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Apr 2011 05:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8216;Jamie&#8217; is a ten year old boy.  He thinks he should be a girl. When I was ten I thought I came from another planet, that my real name was Dr Zuric, and that I had secretly been sent to Earth to investigate the local populace prior to invasion. Fortunately for humans, I had seen their [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/04/17/jamies-betrayal/' addthis:title='Jamie&#8217;s Betrayal '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;Jamie&#8217; is a ten year old boy.  He thinks he should be a girl.</p>
<p>When I was ten I thought I came from another planet, that my real name was Dr Zuric, and that I had secretly been sent to Earth to investigate the local populace prior to invasion. Fortunately for humans, I had seen their potential and renounced my superpowers forever, instead standing vigilant against the threat posed by my former galactic gangster buddies.</p>
<p>My parents were amused. My Mum refused to believe the scale of the spaceship that delivered me to Earth. When I drew her a picture of it, she said she thought the windows should be bigger.</p>
<p>&#8216;Mum,&#8217; I said, &#8216;Those windows are four storeys high.&#8217; She laughed and told me that was ridiculous.</p>
<p>I was deeeply insulted. Didn&#8217;t she realise the engineering skill that had gone into the construction of that ship? Or the sacrifices I had made for the sake of her species?</p>
<p>No she didn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>My parents treated my fantasies with respect. My dad even made me a control box so I could summon my warrior robots whenever I needed them (the one I had arrived with had been stolen &#8211; I was never able to find out by whom. I still have suspicions. Not everyone on Earth is good, you know).</p>
<p>My parents never suggested I needed psychiatric help &#8211; even when, in an earlier phase, I had demanded in tears to be allowed to take tea out to the faires in the grass behind the house next door because it hadn&#8217;t rained for two weeks and they were dying of thirst. Mum gave me some very small cups and some lukewarm water with sugar in it. I reported later that the fairies were very grateful, and had promised to watch out for any dangerous visitors, and to warn me if any shadowy figures arrived by putting coded messages in the constant birdsong, messages which only I would understand.</p>
<p>Several potential crises involving demonic visitors were avoided in this way.</p>
<p>It is barely worth mentioning that at different times I believed myself to be a re-incarnation of Manolete, the famous matador (never mind that I did not believe in re-incarnation); the eldest son of an Eastern European monarch who had smuggled me to safety as a baby and left me to be brought up by peasants who pretended to be my parents (he would be back to restore me to my rightful place as crown prince as soon as the kingdom had been made safe); or an entirely new kind of creature, a mutated sea lord (my mother was actually a mermaid, but we had agreed never to mention this potentially embarassing fact &#8211; even Dad did not know), who found it convenient for the moment to conceal my true powers and identity.</p>
<p>No psychiatric help for me. I was a child. Children play games and inhabit a world of magic and monsters. That is part of what childhood is.</p>
<p>I believed my stories, or pretended to, with the utmost seriousness. But I would have been appalled if they had.</p>
<p>Their common sense, their being adults, and consequently grounded in reality, created a safe place for me to be a child; growing into who I was was by pretending to be all sorts of things I was not.</p>
<p>Jamie&#8217;s parents appear not to be grounded in reality. There was no safe place for Jamie.</p>
<p>Jamie, like many little boys, went through a period of thinking he would really like to be a little girl.</p>
<p>Tragically for him, his parents seem to have believed him, and consequently, he has been stuck in that fantasy ever since. They got him psychiatric help.</p>
<p>The psychiatrists, people who are supposed to know a thing or two about human nature and the intricate tarantella of growing up, also believed him, proving they know nothing about anything.</p>
<p>His parents found him a school which was willing to accept him as a girl.</p>
<p>Then they went to court to get permission to begin a process that will turn him from a boy into a pretend woman. <a href="http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/nation/judge-agrees-with-boy-who-identifies-as-a-girl/story-e6frg6nf-1226039973338">Family Court Judge Linda Dessau has agreed.</a></p>
<p>All he needed was someone to say no &#8211; to recognise that that he is a child, that children say things they don&#8217;t mean, live lives of earnest fantasy, and need adults to fix boundaries to those fantasies.</p>
<p>Jamie is ten. If the process goes ahead, he will not become a man. He will never have a family. And he will gain nothing in return. He will never be a woman, no matter what mutilations hormones and surgery wreak upon his body and mind.</p>
<p>Parents, psychiatrists, school and court &#8211; none have done their job. Jamie was just being a child. They could not find it in themselves to be adults.</p>
<p>Jamie has been betrayed.</p>
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		<title>Boards and Quotas</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2011 06:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fifteen years later, a letter from the then CEO of Cypress (a US designer and manufacturer of semi-conductor based technology) is still the best response to demands for quotas of women or minorities on company (or other) boards. On April 23, 1996, Cypress received a letter from the Sisters of St. Francis of Philadelphia. The [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/04/11/boards-and-quotas/' addthis:title='Boards and Quotas '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fifteen years later, a <a href="http://www.cypress.com/?rID=34986">letter from the then CEO of Cypress</a> (a US designer and manufacturer of semi-conductor based technology) is still the best response to demands for quotas of women or minorities on company (or other) boards.</p>
<p><em>On April 23, 1996, Cypress received a letter from the Sisters of St. Francis of Philadelphia. The latter is a religious congregation of approximately 1,000 women and was, at the time the letter was written, the beneficial owner of a number of Cypress shares. The letter was a form letter, and it carried the stamped signature of Doris Gormley, OSF.</em></p>
<p><em>In the letter, Sister Doris, speaking for the Sisters of St. Francis of Philadelphia as a Cypress shareholder, expressed the view that a company &#8220;is best represented by a Board of qualified Directors reflecting the equality of the sexes, races, and ethnic groups.&#8221; The letter went on to say that it is the congregation&#8217;s policy &#8220;to withhold authority to vote for nominees of a Board of Directors that does not include women and minorities.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>In response, CEO TJ Rodgers wrote a long letter in which he described the sisters&#8217; position as unsound, even immoral, and more related to political correctness than Christianity.</p>
<p>This is the beginning:</p>
<p><em>Dear Sister Gormley:</em></p>
<p><em>Thank you for your letter criticizing the lack of racial and gender diversity of Cypress&#8217;s Board of Directors. I received the same letter from you last year. I will reiterate the management arguments opposing your position. Then I will provide the philosophical basis behind our rejection of the operating principles espoused in your letter, which we believe to be not only unsound, but even immoral, by a definition of that term I will present.</em></p>
<p><em>The semiconductor business is a tough one with significant competition from the Japanese, Taiwanese, and Koreans. There have been more corporate casualties than survivors. For that reason, our Board of Directors is not a ceremonial watchdog, but a critical management function. The essential criteria for Cypress board membership are as follows:</em></p>
<p><em>•Experience as a CEO of an important technology company.</em><br />
<em>•Direct expertise in the semiconductor business based on education and management experience.</em><br />
<em>•Direct experience in the management of a company that buys from the semiconductor industry. </em><br />
<em>A search based on these criteria usually yields a male who is 50-plus years old, has a Masters degree in an engineering science, and has moved up the managerial ladder to the top spot in one or more corporations. Unfortunately, there are currently few minorities and almost no women who chose to be engineering graduate students 30 years ago. (That picture will be dramatically different in 10 years, due to the greater diversification of graduate students in the &#8217;80s.) Bluntly stated, a &#8220;woman&#8217;s view&#8221; on how to run our semiconductor company does not help us, unless that woman has an advanced technical degree and experience as a CEO. I do realize there are other industries in which the last statement does not hold true. We would quickly embrace the opportunity to include any woman or minority person who could help us as a director, because we pursue talent &#8212; and we don&#8217;t care in what package that talent comes.</em></p>
<p><em>I believe that placing arbitrary racial or gender quotas on corporate boards is fundamentally wrong. Therefore, not only does Cypress not meet your requirements for boardroom diversification, but we are unlikely to, because it is very difficult to find qualified directors, let alone directors that also meet investors&#8217; racial and gender preferences.</em></p>
<p><em>I infer that your concept of corporate &#8220;morality&#8221; contains in it the requirement to appoint a Board of Directors with, in your words, &#8220;equality of sexes, races, and ethnic groups.&#8221; I am unaware of any Christian requirements for corporate boards; your views seem more accurately described as &#8220;politically correct,&#8221; than &#8220;Christian.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>My views aside, your requirements are &#8212; in effect &#8212; immoral. By &#8220;immoral,&#8221; I mean &#8220;causing harm to people,&#8221; a fundamental wrong. Here&#8217;s why:</em></p>
<p><em>I presume you believe your organization does good work and that the people who spend their careers in its service deserve to retire with the necessities of life assured. If your investment in Cypress is intended for that purpose, I can tell you that each of the retired Sisters of St. Francis would suffer if I were forced to run Cypress on anything but a profit-making basis. The retirement plans of thousands of other people also depend on Cypress stock &#8212; $1.2 billion worth of stock &#8212; owned directly by investors or through mutual funds, pension funds, 401k programs, and insurance companies. Recently, a fellow 1970 Dartmouth classmate wrote to say that his son&#8217;s college fund (&#8220;Dartmouth, Class of 2014,&#8221; he writes) owns Cypress stock. Any choice I would make to jeopardize retirees and other investors from achieving their lifetime goals would be fundamentally wrong.</em></p>
<p>Rodgers goes on to explain in more detail what the consequences of quotas would be for employees, shareholders and the wider economy.</p>
<p>Follow the link above to read the whole letter.</p>
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		<title>When is a Baby a Baby?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Mar 2011 23:56:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An unborn baby died yesterday after the car the mother was driving struck a guard rail and went into the Barwon River near Geelong: The woman, who was about 30 weeks&#8217; pregnant, managed to free herself from the car as it sank into the river on Friday evening &#8230; Police are adding the unborn baby&#8217;s [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/03/28/when-is-a-baby-a-baby/' addthis:title='When is a Baby a Baby? '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An <a href="http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/more-news/unborn-baby-killed-in-car-plunge-at-fyansford-near-geelong/story-fn7x8me2-1226028882807" target="_blank">unborn baby died yesterday</a> after the car the mother was driving struck a guard rail and went into the Barwon River near Geelong:</p>
<p><em>The woman, who was about 30 weeks&#8217; pregnant, managed to free herself from the car as it sank into the river on Friday evening &#8230;</em></p>
<p><em>Police are adding the unborn baby&#8217;s death to the road toll which now stands at 67, one fewer than for the same time last year.</em></p>
<p>I am glad that in this instance the child is being recognised as a person.</p>
<p>Similarly in this <a href="http://www.kfoxtv.com/news/27313622/detail.html" target="_blank">accident a few days ago in Texas</a>:</p>
<p><em>A 17-year-old woman and her unborn baby were killed in a pedestrian crash Wednesday night in Horizon City.</em></p>
<p><em>Emergency crews took Nelly Pizarro, who was five months pregnant at the time of the crash, to Del Sol Medical Center. The baby died shortly after arriving at the hospital. Nelly Pizarro died Thursday morning.</em></p>
<p>What I don&#8217;t understand is what makes those babies &#8216;babies,&#8217; and thousands who are aborted &#8216;foetal tissue.&#8217;</p>
<p>There is no difference in the babies. Surely we are not judging whether people are people on the basis of whether they are wanted or not?</p>
<p>And if that is what we are doing, how are we different from the Hutus when they decided the Tutsis were not human? Or Saddam Hussein and the Kurds? Or Hitler and the Jews, Gypsies and homosexuals?</p>
<p>A person&#8217;s a person, no matter how small.</p>
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		<title>Andrew Bolt and Aboriginality</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Mar 2011 08:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Andrew Bolt will appear in the Australian Federal Court this week to face complaints made against him and the Herald and Weekly Times under Australia&#8217;s Racial Discrimination Act 1975. In 1995 provisions were introduced into that act which dealt with expressions of racial hatred. Specifically, those provisions made it illegal for a person (corporate or natural) [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/03/27/andrew-bolt-and-aboriginality/' addthis:title='Andrew Bolt and Aboriginality '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew Bolt will appear in the Australian Federal Court this week to face complaints made against him and the Herald and Weekly Times under Australia&#8217;s Racial Discrimination Act 1975.</p>
<p>In 1995 provisions were introduced into that act which dealt with expressions of racial hatred. Specifically, those provisions made it illegal for a person (corporate or natural) to:</p>
<p><em>do an act, otherwise than in private, if:<br />
(a) the act is reasonably likely in all the circumstances to offend, insult, humiliate or intimidate another person or group of people, and<br />
(b) the act is done because of the race, colour or national or ethnic origin of the other person or some or all of the people in the group.</em></p>
<p>There are some exemptions. The racial vilification page on the website of the <a href="http://www.hreoc.gov.au/racial_discrimination/cyberracism/vilification.html" target="_blank">Human Rights and Equal Opportunity Commission explains these exemptions as follows:</a></p>
<p><em>To protect freedom of expression, the legislation sets out certain circumstances in which the prohibition will not apply, providing the person has acted reasonably and in good faith. First, if the communication is part of an artistic work it is not unlawful. Also excepted are academic and scientific works and debates or comments on matters of public interest. This permits a range of public policy issues to be debated such as multiculturalism, native title and so on. The media are given considerable scope in a third exception which permits fair and accurate reporting on any matter of public interest. This last exception enables the media to report on public issues, such as racial incitement or racially offensive conduct. It also allows editorial opinions and the like, providing they are published without malice.</em></p>
<p>As in much legislation, this is an attempt to balance different rights which may be in conflict. In this case, the right of citizens to engage in robust discussion without fear, against the right of persons to be protected against statements likely to provoke hatred against them on the basis of their race.</p>
<p>Now to the specifics.</p>
<p>In two columns published on his blog and in the Herald Sun on <a href="http://blogs.news.com.au/heraldsun/andrewbolt/index.php/heraldsun/comments/column_white_is_the_new_black/" target="_blank">April 15th 2009</a>, and <a href="http://www.heraldsun.com.au/opinion-old/white-fellas-in-the-black/story-e6frfifo-1225764532947" target="_blank">August 21st 2009,</a> Andrew Bolt drew the public&#8217;s attention to a number of persons who had claimed benefits intended to assist indigenous Australians, but whose basis for claiming to be aboriginal was not clear. Most of those identified looked as white any full-blooded dutchman, and some had little or no identifiable aboriginal descent or heritage.</p>
<p>Andrew made it clear in his columns that part of his concern was that if awards intended to assist underprivileged aboriginal persons were being given to educated middle-class white people, then the persons who should have been helped by those awards were not being helped at all:</p>
<p><em>&#8230;  when a privileged white Aborigine then snaffles that extra, odds are that an underprivileged black Aborigine misses out on the very things we hoped would help them most.</em></p>
<p><em>Take Mellor&#8217;s art prize. This white university lecturer, with his nice Canberra studio, has by winning pushed aside real draw-in-the-dirt Aboriginal artists such as Dorothy Napangardi, Mitjili Napanangka Gibson and Walangkura Napanangka, who&#8217;d also entered and could really have used that cash and recognition.</em></p>
<p><em>DOES this make sense? What&#8217;s an Aboriginal art prize for, if a man as white and cosseted as Mellor can win it, and with a work that shows no real Aboriginal techniques or traditions?</em></p>
<p><em>What&#8217;s a black Aboriginal artist from the bush to think, seeing yet another white man lope back to the city with the goodies?</em></p>
<p>That hardly seems calculated to to offend, insult, humiliate or intimidate another person or group of people &#8230; because of the race, colour or national or ethnic origin of the other person.</p>
<p>Those claiming to have been offended, insulted, humiliated and intimidated are represented by Joel Zyngier from the legal firm Holding Redlich. <a href="http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/aborigines-sue-bolt-over-racial-writings-20100917-15gk7.html" target="_blank">Zyngier told The Age on Sptemeber 18 2010</a> that:</p>
<p><em>‘‘We see it as clarifying the issue of identity — who gets to say who is and who is not Aboriginal. Essentially, the articles by Bolt have challenged people’s identity. He’s basically arguing that the people he identified are white people pretending they’re black so they can access public benefits.’’</em></p>
<p>The argument, then, is that any discussion of who is aboriginal and who is not, except by aboriginals themselves, amounts to racial vilification. In other words, that the only persons who have the right to determine who is aboriginal and who is not, are aboriginal people and aboriginal communities. Any discussion of this by other persons is foreseeably likely to cause offence, insult or humilation, etc.</p>
<p>Others have pointed out that questions of aboriginal identity and entitlement have been raised before, frequently by aboriginal people.</p>
<p>For example, in <a href="http://www.quadrant.org.au/magazine/issue/2010/12/the-trial-of-andrew-bolt-ii-real-aborigines-versus-phoneys" target="_blank">Quadrant September 2010, Keith Windschuttle</a> noted that:</p>
<p><em>In 2001, after the Commonwealth government announced it would tighten eligibility for the right to vote in elections for the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Commission, the head of the Tasmanian Aboriginal Centre, Michael Mansell, declared there were “more phoney than real Aborigines in Tasmania, and more than half the voters in the 1996 ATSIC election were not Aboriginal”. According to the Canberra Times, Mansell added:</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;With the coming of ATSIC, we got stuck with people trying to rort the system. Saying you’re Aboriginal is the password into ATSIC and its money. It’s happening all over Australia, though Tasmania has had one of the sharpest increases.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>This is discussion of aboriginal identity by aboriginal people, or at least, by people claiming to be aboriginal, so no one should feel offended, humiliated, or intimidated.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s say that those excluded by Mr Mansell&#8217;s criteria do feel offended and humiliated. Let&#8217;s further say that they produce evidence of their aboriginality, and ask the court to overturn the decision made by Mr Mansell and his group.</p>
<p>This will necessarily involve the court, a whitefella organisation, in consideration of who is aboriginal and who is not.</p>
<p>This is a circumstance in which it would be both appropriate and necessary for non-aboriginal people to consider what constitutes aboriginality.</p>
<p>Are there other circmstances in which such discussion might be reasonable?</p>
<p>To avoid any appearance of focussing on aboriginals, imagine that the Federal government has determined that red-headed dwarves are under-represented in Australia&#8217;s sports teams, political parties, art galleries and boardrooms. It is clear that they are frequently subject to humiliating insults &#8211; rusty, ginger, shorty, runt, etc &#8211; and that they face considerable obstacles in gaining employment and recognition.</p>
<p>A number of measures are introduced to remedy this situation. Special benefits are offered including access to education, prizes and scholarships.</p>
<p>After a while, members of the public notice that some of those claiming benefits seem to be of average, even more than average height. Some even have brown hair. It is hard to imagine that these broad-shouldered six footers with chestnut curls have suffered a great deal because of their red headed dwarfiness.</p>
<p>But when questions are asked about this, the questioners are met with outrage, and even threats of lawsuits. It is, they are told, the exclusive province of the red headed dwarf community to determine who are its members, and who are not. Any such questions raised by others are offensive and humiliating, and dwarfist.</p>
<p>That might be true if the question of who was in and who was out related to events and benefits solely provided and organised by the red headed dwarf community. But it does not.</p>
<p>It becomes a question of public interest because public money is involved. The public has set aside money to assist members of a group which appears to be under-privileged.</p>
<p>Money has been taken from tax-payers and allocated for that purpose. This money could have been used elsewhere, for roads, water supply, medical equipment, etc.</p>
<p>The public is entitled to be reasonably confident that the persons to whom their money is given are genuinely members of the group intended to be assisted.</p>
<p>This is not dwarfist. Nor is it racist. Persons claiming public money on the basis of membership of a particular group should expect the public to take an interest in whether they really do belong to that group.</p>
<p>Andrew Bolt is entitled to ask such questions. It is in the public interest that they be asked, whether by him or others.</p>
<p>This does not mean he is right in every instance.</p>
<p>I have an aquaintance, a friend of a friend, who was the daughter of a white man and an aboriginal woman. She grew up in a remote camp, speaking only pidgin, and subject to years of sexual and physical abuse.</p>
<p>She escaped when she was fifteen and went to work in a pub. She learned to speak standard english. She taught herself to read and write, and eventually went to university. She is a strong, couargeous, intelligent woman. She has red hair and light coloured skin. She lives in the city.</p>
<p>But she identifies, because of her mother and her childhood, as aboriginal.</p>
<p>If anyone deserves recognition and acknowledgement it is she. But she has never accepted any special benefits, prizes or scholarships.</p>
<p>I suspect she would regard reliance on those things, and the sense of entitlement that they encourage, as being as much a poison, a cause of paralysis and lack of progess for indigenous people, as Jarndyce and Jarndyce was for Richard Carstone in Dicken&#8217;s Bleak House.</p>
<p>I also suspect (and will ask her one day) that if she had accepted some special award for aboriginals, and been among those listed in Mr Bolt&#8217;s columns, she would have rung him and talked to him, rather than ringing her lawyer.</p>
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		<title>40 Days For Life</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last Sunday was the first Sunday of Lent, the forty day period of fasting which ends at Easter. Christians remember Jesus&#8217; forty days of fasting in the desert prior to his baptism and public ministry. The purpose of the Lenten fasting and self denial (which need not be in relation to food) is to remind us of [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/03/22/40-days-for-life/' addthis:title='40 Days For Life '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last Sunday was the first Sunday of Lent, the forty day period of fasting which ends at Easter. Christians remember Jesus&#8217; forty days of fasting in the desert prior to his baptism and public ministry.</p>
<p>The purpose of the Lenten fasting and self denial (which need not be in relation to food) is to remind us of our reliance on God, and to take some less important or distracting things out of our lives, in order to make more room for prayer, service, study, and other things which really matter.</p>
<p>Hundreds of churches around the world are keeping this Lent as <a href="http://www.40daysforlife.com/sydney/" target="_blank">40 Days for Life</a>, a focused pro-life effort that consists of three key areas of participation:</p>
<p>•40 days of prayer and fasting<br />
•40 days of peaceful vigil<br />
•40 days of community outreach</p>
<p>So on that subject I note with sorrow that in <a href="http://www.firstthings.com/blogs/firstthoughts/2011/03/14/number-of-abortions-exceeds-total-deaths-in-new-york-city/" target="_blank">New York city in 2008, there were 82,475 induced abortions.</a> This figure is only for surgical procedures, and does not include use of the &#8216;morning after&#8217; pill, or any of the unknown number of non-recorded abortions.</p>
<p>The total number of deaths in all age groups from all other causes was 55,391.</p>
<p>82,475 abortions. 55,391 deaths from all other causes.</p>
<p>A black baby is three times more likely to be aborted than a white baby.</p>
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<p>Every culture has its moral black spots. we look back at the Nazis with horror. Not just at the comparatively few who were actively involved in the wholesale murder of Jews, Gypsies, homosexuals and other &#8216;undesireables,&#8217; but at the vastly greater number who knew what was happening and did nothing.</p>
<p>Western society&#8217;s argument in relation to abortion is that an unborn child is not really human. The Nazis thought the same about Jews and Gypsies.</p>
<p>Future generations will look back at us with the same bewildered horror.</p>
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		<title>Sigh. Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Tonight</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mardi Gras means fat (or big) Tuesday. It is the day before Lent. It is also called Shrove Tuesday because it is a day to be shriven, that is, to confess your sins and ask for absolution so you can enter into the season of Lent with a clear mind and heart, and the determination [...]<div><a class="addthis_button" href="//addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250" addthis:url='http://www.qohel.com/2011/03/05/sigh-gay-and-lesbian-mardi-gras-tonight/' addthis:title='Sigh. Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Tonight '><img src="//cache.addthis.com/cachefly/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mardi Gras means fat (or big) Tuesday. It is the day before Lent.</p>
<p>It is also called Shrove Tuesday because it is a day to be shriven, that is, to confess your sins and ask for absolution so you can enter into the season of Lent with a clear mind and heart, and the determination never again to do anything contrary to the will of God. Mardi Gras because Christians fast during Lent, and luxury foods like eggs and meat are to be finished off on that day &#8211; even if there is plenty. So it is a day both to reflect and to feast.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.news.com.au/national/mardi-gras-moment-to-send-message-to-pm/story-e6frfkvr-1226016316114" target="_blank">Tonight is the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras in Sydney</a>. It&#8217;s the Saturday night before Shrove Tuesday, not Shrove Tuesday itself. But this has to be just about the most egregious appropriation of a religious festival in human history.</p>
<p>Christians may find the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras offensive. I certainly find some aspects offensive. The sisters of perpetual indulgence, for example, a group of self-obsessed morons who mercilessly belittle and abuse the group, Roman Catholic nuns, who do more on the ground work to relieve AIDS suffering than any other. </p>
<p>But Christians being offended doesn&#8217;t matter. We will go out of our way not to be offensive in return. We certainly won&#8217;t subject those who offend us to physical violence.</p>
<p>If the gay and lesbian population really want to make a stand for what they perceive as their rights, why not hold this festival at a time or in a place when it is confronting to a culture that regards them as less than human, which decrees that gays and lesbians should be hanged, stoned or beheaded?</p>
<p>How about the Ramadan Gay and Lesbian Festival? Held in Lakemba?</p>
<p>No?</p>
<p>A clear majority of Australians, including me, believe that gays and lesbians should be treated equally under the law. Not subject to sanctions, and able to register long-standing partnerships for tax or pension or bequest purposes.</p>
<p>But where the heck do they get the idea that a clear majority of Australians believe two men or two women should be able to marry one another?</p>
<p>Marriage is a lifelong union between one man and one woman. Nothing anyone says is going to change that. And nothing anyone says is going to change the fact that most Australians believe the law should reflect what marriage really is, not whatever passing trends claim it should be.</p>
<p>And no, you can&#8217;t marry your pet dolphin.</p>
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